Brenna Helen Marie was born on December 19, 2011 at 2:30 p.m., weighing 5 lbs, 11 oz. She was born at 36.5 weeks, and we were so excited that she was arriving before Christmas. My labor was quick - my water broke about 9:45, I headed to the hospital at 10:30, and she was born at 2:30 - and the delivery was SO easy as compared to my first with my 2-year-old son Connor. But immediately when Brenna was born, it was very obvious that something was wrong.
Brenna was born with Harlequin Ichthyosis, which is a very rare and extremely serious skin disease. Basically, her skin lacks a certain protein which helps it form correctly, and instead it was formed as thick, white-ish scales with ridges all over. It is so thick that it is very tight and keeps her from moving very much. The tightness in her skin caused her eyelids to be pulled outwards, so that they are almost inside out, her ears are pulled tight against her head, her nose is turned up and her lips are pulled outwards as well. While her physical appearance is definitely startling, we think she is one beautiful girl.
Because her skin lacks this protein, it cannot retain moisture like normal skin, nor can it regulate her body temperature as our skin does, so she must be kept in a very warm and moist environment in the NICU at St. John's Hospital. They are closely monitoring her temperature and humidity levels in her incubator and have to have everything sealed unless they absolutely must open one of her "doors" to feed her, apply ointment, etc.
Most likely, it was caused by both my husband Evan and I carrying the recessive gene for this condition - which is literally a 1 in a million chance for us both to have it.
Right now, Brenna's biggest risk is infection, because she has such a high susceptibility, and it will be a very big challenge to both avoid infection and treat it if it does occur. We have begun aggressive treatment with a medicine that will help her skin "turn over" more quickly. We are so fortunate to have a wonderful pediatric dermatologist right here in Springfield (which is a rarity), and based on the very few cases there are like Brenna's, this course of action will help her shed the very thick scales and be left with a more reddish, flaky skin if it is successful. There will be a lot for her to overcome to get to that point, and it will take months at minimum.
Through it all, however, our priority is pain management and we want to make sure Brenna is as comfortable as possible and not in much pain. There are so many what ifs that we are just ready to take this day by day to see how she does, and to cherish each second we get to spend with her.
We found this video online about a teenage girl who is living with Harlequin Ichthyosis in the U.S., and we found it so helpful in understanding what is happening with Brenna's skin and to understand what a vital role our skin plays to our body, which is why this condition is so serious and not just an aesthetic issue.
http://worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhk0A758v5lEkmCKrk
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Above all, Evan and I feel so proud and honored that God chose us to be the parents of this special girl. We have so much love for her already and know that whatever is to come, she has already made such an important impact on our family.
Courtney & Family,
ReplyDeleteFellow NICU mom here, I just wanted to say CONGRATULATIONS! Brenna is such a beautiful little princess!!! God listens to every prayer, and your family is in ours every day. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Keep writing!! One day, you'll look back on these posts and and be so glad you did <3
Thank you for sharing the journey. The video was so hopeful and helpful in understanding. I'll be following and praying.
ReplyDeleteCourtney,
ReplyDeleteYour love for Brenna comes through in the blog. Thank you for sharing your little girl. She has a special family who loves her very much. That is the best thing any new baby can hope for. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Brenna. I hope she improves and keeps on getting better.
Tara Darst
Courtney and Evan,
ReplyDeleteYour grace and strength are inspiring; your love and devotion to Brenna and your determination to provide her with the best care available while sheltering her from pain is a moving and amazing Christmas story. That your precious little girl is a fighter is a blessing, and she must know that her loving and strong parents are right there with her, fighting too.
You and your family are very much in my thoughts and prayers, and I have reached out to friends and family, asking for their prayers and support as well. And as friends continue to reach out to others and Brenna's story is shared, the prayers and love and support will increase. I have to believe Brenna can and will feel the love that inspires those prayers.
May God bless you and your beautiful children.
Donna Matthews
I came her through your cousin Vivian's prayer request. Definitely praying for Brenna and you. (I found another link to Hunter's video - a little less cluttered too:-) http://www.myvidster.com/video/2313974/Video_Inspirational_14yr_Old_Girl_With_Harlequin_Ichthyosis_Skin_Disorder_Wa
ReplyDeleteHi! I am a mom of 3 with a different sort of Ichthyosis and wanted to know if you have gotten in touch with the FIRST foundation. I know several families with Harlequin, including Hunter, and most of them would be glad to help you through this most critical period and beyond. Please get in touch with Moureen at 215-997-9400 or firstskinfoundation.org
ReplyDeleteI wish you well and hope to see you and Brenna at the family conference in June in Denver.
Jennifer
Hi there
ReplyDeleteI found your blog via the Friends of Ichthyosis Facebook page. I too have ichthyosis - not Harlequin's though.
The love and hope you have for Brenna is just beautiful. While she is very sick and her life will be difficult at times, she is surrounded with such loving parents and support from friends and strangers.
I wish you all the very best, and hope you will keep writing about Brenna's journey.
If you need any advice, please ask. I blog about my experiences with ichthyosis too.
Carly (Australia)
I just want to say that I think that your Brenna is beautiful and she is lucky to have you two as parents. Keep up the faith.
ReplyDeleteI saw Brenna's birth announcement in my facebook feed (because Brad Ward liked it). Just wanted to let you know, that I will share your story with my family tonight and add Brenna to our nightly dinner prayer. Thanks for sharing her story.
ReplyDeleteLike Todd, I too found your blog in Brad Ward's Facebook feed. I know you've received a huge showing of support from friends, family, and strangers as well. While I'm among the latter, I'm deeply humbled by and in awe of your family. Having recently become a father myself, I know the love for a new baby can run deep, but the love and devotion expressed here in this blog is--simply put--beyond inspiring.
ReplyDeleteNo doubt, many people will tell you how lucky your beautiful daughter Brenna is to have been born to such a loving family, but I suspect...as the years go on...you'll be reaffirmed that you're in fact the lucky ones. Thank you for sharing your story.
All my best,
Adam Brown
Love your story and hope she continues to bring cherished memories. She is no dought a blessing. Hope your day is going well. Have a great week.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter has a different skin condition nothing like your daughters but I will be praying for your family. Your daughter is so beautiful!
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU FOR SHARING BRENNA'S STORY - WE WILL BE RUNNING FOR HER IN APRIL :)
ReplyDeleteI share your expectations for your precious, beautiful baby girl. The prayers of the body of Christ are powerful! We are parents of a child who was healed of a life threatening disease and am so thankful for medicine and prayer to bring healing. To God be the glory!
ReplyDeleteSaw your story at Dr. Boyer's office yesterday, and am thankful for the opportunity to sow into Brenna's healing.
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DeleteSounds like Brenna might be having issues with digesting cow's milk proteins. You may want to try Gerber Good Start Soy formula and a fat/carb supplement called Duocal to bring up the calorie content of the bottles. This is the same problem our little one with Harlequin has....
ReplyDeletehow is your beautiful girl going now?
ReplyDeleteshe shares a birthday with my little boy :)
i hope she is doing well. I am sure you have seen the sisters in england who have the same disease and have managed to live fairly normal lives. they are a great inspiration.
sending all my love
xx
Your daughter is beautiful
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing Brenna's story.We have our own little miracle in our grandson who was born last year in January at 22weeks,he was only 1lbs 1oz.We will include your little angel and your family in our prayers.Our Heavenly Father still performs miracles and hears prayers.He has chosen special parents for this precious spirits.
ReplyDeleteTrudy,from the Atlanta Team from Tennessee.
Bless u brenna i hope u get alot BETTER From Emilee Shipley 10 yrs old
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad she is doing better. My prayers are with her and her wonderful parents. God bless all of you.
ReplyDeleteCourtney and Evan, Your and Brenna's story is very inspiring. I pray that you and Brenna are doing well. God has blessed Brenna with a very special family. You all will be in my prayers.
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God bless you and your Family!! your a wonderful couple! and have a gorgeous family.
ReplyDeleteYour story is so amazing--thank you for sharing. Your life may not be exactly how you imagined it being, but I'm sure you wouldn't trade it for the world. It's awesome how God uses His little children with extra special needs to transform us and to love like He designed us to love. Brenna is blessed to have such wonderful parents, and you are blessed to have your adorable little boy and beautiful little girl! Praying for continued health for little Brenna!
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