Commemorating Rare Disease Day: My Storybook Project
Today, February 29, is Rare Disease Day.
Before December 19, I hadn't given much thought about rare diseases. But that day, we were thrown into the world of Harlequin Ichthyosis...and since then, our lives have revolved about this disease and its affect on our little girl.
In honor of Rare Disease Day, I want to share about a very special project I've been involved with recently and to ask for your help as the project moves into the final stage. When Brenna was a couple of weeks old, a friend shared on twitter about an organization called MarbleRoad, which raises awareness about rare diseases, and a "contest" they were doing called the Rare Children's Storybook Project. The focus of the project was to compose a story involving a rare disease...and then chosen finalists would be asked to create an accompanying video.
At first, I didn't think I had time to devote to writing a story in a matter of days. But one afternoon, I spent a few hours alone with Brenna at the hospital, and when I came home, the story just poured out of me. I wanted to write something for her and to her, so that she would know how we felt about her birth and her presence in our lives.
This is my video, sharing the story of Brenna's birth and our journey as a family over the last couple of months. Below, you'll find my story, which was written for the 0-5 age range (and you can read the stories of the other finalists in the storybook gallery here.)
The winner for this project (who receives some money for medical costs and is considered for publication) is chosen based on the number of views, comments and "likes" on the video, so I would really appreciate you all taking the time to watch my video and read my story about our sweet girl!
For You, We Prayed
Daddy and Mommy knew something was missing in our family
We said, “We need a little girl to love.”
So we prayed and prayed,
Asking God to send us an angel from above
“And not just any little girl, Lord.
We want a baby as precious as can be.
We want to give her hugs and kisses,
And make sure that she’s happy.”
“I have a very special baby girl,” God said to us.
But she will need more care than other babies do.
Her skin will be very different,
And her ears and eyes too.
She will need lots of understanding and time from you
Sometimes she might be very sick.
But the laughter and joy she has to share
Are truly heaven-sent.
I need to find parents for this special girl whom I can trust.”
We said, “Please God, choose us!”
We told him, “We have so much love to give
And happiness to share.
We know this perfect child
Is the one we have been praying for.”
“Bless us with this child,” we implored.
“We trust your plan for her, oh Lord.”
God smiled and said he would grant us this great blessing.
This is a beautiful video with an even more beautiful message for your sweet Brenna. I'm continuing to pray for all of you and admire your strength. With all of my love. Kim
To see Brenna is "action" and not just a photograph made me bawl like a baby! I love this! Your ability to capture this journey through your words, photographs, and now video is so beautiful!
Your video and message brought me to my knees. I truly applaud your courage and ability to share your story of your sweet baby girl. She's such a fighter! Prayers and positive energy to the Westlake's.
I am at work, sitting at my desk and crying. Not with tears of sadness but instead of joy and graditude. It is as if you have just spoken every word that I have had in my heart and every thought that I have had about how Lauren came to us. You write with such grace. Thank you so much for sharing your gift and for speaking to my heart as well.
:) You had mentioned one time that you tell Lauren the story of her birth while doing treatments, and it very much reminded me of the story I had written!
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little girl and family! You are an inspiration to all moms....not just those with a baby with extra needs. So special to see how this little girl is bringing the town of Springfield together to support this beautiful family! Lovely words, Courtney....many, many people who don't personally know you know of you and are sending prayers and love your way daily! Hugs to all of you!
Amazing! Brought me to tears! Such a compelling and inspiring story. Brenna is truly a gift from God and couldn't have been born to better parents! Prayers continued! <3 The Murphy's
Beautiful baby girl. Beautiful family. Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. Your story is truely inspiring and I admire your strength. Brenna and your family is in my prayers everyday. Erika Thompson
Such a beautiful story and what an amazing video! Positive thoughts and prayers continue to be sent your way. Your strength and courage continue to amaze me...Beautiful Brenna is lucky to have such amazing parents! Tears of joy for you and your beautiful family. Kristin
What a beautiful story! God knew what he was doing when he gave such a precious gift to you. Love reading your blog, thoughts and prayers always with you. Tara
Just want to tell you.....your family is such a wonderful example of Christs unconditional love! You are inspiring and will touch so many lives with your precious little girl. Debbie K.
You are such a strong willed family and your daughter is beautiful! God bless your family. You have been chosen to raise this beautiful child, and we pray for her continuous growth and strength.
"God doesn't give children with disabilities to strong people: He gives them to ordinary, everyday people, then He helps the parents to grow stronger through the journey. Raising a child with special needs doesn't TAKE a special family, it MAKES a special family." ~Author Unknown
beautiful video!!!! I am so amazed at your strength! we continue to keep Brenna and all of you in our thoughts and prayers
Beautiful video. Such a moving story. It is so heart warming and humbling to see how much you love, cherish, and are thankful for your little baby girl. Your choice to love her and to help her thrive in this world is a true testimony of God's Love. Bless your daughter, your son, and both of you. Bruce & Julie
We have been following your blog since you've begun posting. We check everyday to see how Brenna and her family are doing. We admire your faith, trust and family courage for precious Brenna. We loved your video and story. Jan & Becky
Your love and strength is so amazing and heartwarming!! I loved the video- it was so well done! I think about your family often and I will keep precious Brenna in my prayers.
We have mutual friends and I have been following the story of your BEAUTIFUL Brenna. Each time I read one of your posts I am awed at your strength of your spirit and the generous way you have shared your darling little girl with strangers far and wide who now feel like friends. God truly blessed your precious Brenna by placing her in your loving arms, and, of course, you are even more blessed to be the family of this beloved child. I have no doubt that Brenna is here to change the world for the better as she journeys her way to a long and lovely life. God bless your family.
What a beautiful story & a beautiful family. Your video had me in tears of both hurt & joy. I'm so thankful that God has chosen the two of you to be Brenna's parents.
Our God is such a good God!....Choosing your family to place Brenna in your hearts, minds, and arms!....A perfect choice!....God Bless you always....XOXOXOXO Sally Day
I just wanted to let you know I emailed two healthy living bloggers and asked them to share Brenna's story with their readers. They have a massive following and if they do then you will win this contest for sure :)
Courtney, your dad always used to say "character is built in the valleys of life", and the longer you live the more true that seems. Your family has been blessed with a beautiful little girl, and with the love and support that is so evident here, I have no doubt she will continue to improve. Julie and I, and the entire family are keeping your family in our prayers! Harvey
God Bless You! Brenna surely is a gift from God. I have been a NICU grandma twice and know how prayer and the holy spirit fill the room with love and warmth. How joyous you must have been when Brenna came home. Prayers for Brenna's continued healing and for God's plan. Blessings, GSue
Wow! What a masterpiece. And I didn't even know this special day on February 29 existed! Thank you so much. I followed all the directions and Brenna got my vote!!! Praying for you all.
I heard about your beautiful Brenna from a mutual friend just after she was born. I know those first days were hard, but we prayed hard for Brenna and your family. God answered all those prayers coming your way. Your story is beautiful and I'm sure as Brenna grows she will cherish your words of love and joy! May God continue Bless Brenna and your family!
This is the most beautiful video I have ever seen. Your family is so strong and loving and are truly blessed. What gifts you have to share with your children. Prayers are coming constantly. God bless you all.
This story is truly inspirational. This is a wonderful way to spread knowledge about rare diseases in children and how families cope. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. And "For You, We Pray" daily.
Little Brenna is so very precious. We check your blog daily and really appreciate the frequent updates. Your video and story are priceless. "For You, we Pray" daily.
I have been following your family's journey since January after following a link from a friend's Facebook page. I just want to tell you how inspiring your family has been to me. I have a seven month old girl and I pray for little Brenna to thrive and grow. Bless you for being so strong and so brave!
God's wonders always continue to amaze me and Brenna is now very much a part of that. My prayers will constantly be with her and her family. Thank you for sharing your special story. I hope to be able to hear of her progress as she grows up.
Dear precious parents, Of course I support your cause; God DID give you this little girl; I admire the way you prayed for her and how you accept her with all the daily worries which God has entrusted you with. I will be praying for her survival. Love, 4-H House sister of Rita (Botterbush)
Baby Brenna is so precious, so very loved. A ray of sunshine surrounds her and extends to far reaches, for she warms every heart who meets her through your generous sharing. Blessings to Brenna and family.
I love the verse "For YOU created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise YOU because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; YOUR works are wonderful!" God is the creator of little Brenna and His works are truly a miracle. Blessings to Brenna and her loving family! Brian and Mary Aaon
Brenna is certainly blessed with amazing parents. Thank you for sharing your story. May God bless you all. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. Merilyn Shepherd 4-H House Class of '75
Wow what a beautiful little poem. Made me cry. I am so happy to see you trust in God. I know when I fell ill it brought me back to Jesus. What a beautiful baby girl.
As like many others who have watched this beautiful video of your darling little girl I too am sitting at my desk crying. Tears of happiness for your family and all that you have overcome. I will continue to pray for amazing things for Brenna. Thank you for sharing!
This is a beautiful video with an even more beautiful message for your sweet Brenna. I'm continuing to pray for all of you and admire your strength. With all of my love. Kim
ReplyDeleteTo see Brenna is "action" and not just a photograph made me bawl like a baby! I love this! Your ability to capture this journey through your words, photographs, and now video is so beautiful!
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! I totally agree! As soon as the video showed actual clips of her, I broke down! Tears of Joy of course!
DeleteShe is beautiful - 'fearfully & wonderfully made'! What a blessing she and y'all are. Hugs & love
ReplyDeleteKitty
That is beautiful, and what a wonderful thing to have and be able to look back on!
ReplyDeleteGreat story and message. I will be praying for you guys
ReplyDeleteKeeping you all in our prayers, with joy; praising God for His faithfulness; sending love to you and Brenna and all your family.
ReplyDeleteYour video and message brought me to my knees. I truly applaud your courage and ability to share your story of your sweet baby girl. She's such a fighter! Prayers and positive energy to the Westlake's.
ReplyDeleteAmazing and beautiful! Thank you for sharing! Our children with Ichthyosis are so special, a true gift from god! Continued prayers for your family.
ReplyDeleteYour family is so incredibly blessed and strong...simply amazing...Brenna is precious .
ReplyDeleteSo much Beauty! Beautiful video, beautiful story, beautiful family, beautiful girl. Thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing story. Brought tears to my eyes. God Bless you all!
ReplyDeleteCourtney,
ReplyDeleteI am at work, sitting at my desk and crying. Not with tears of sadness but instead of joy and graditude. It is as if you have just spoken every word that I have had in my heart and every thought that I have had about how Lauren came to us. You write with such grace. Thank you so much for sharing your gift and for speaking to my heart as well.
Gods continued Blessings,
Shannon
:) You had mentioned one time that you tell Lauren the story of her birth while doing treatments, and it very much reminded me of the story I had written!
DeleteShe is amazing!
DeleteCourtney and Evan,
ReplyDeleteThis is INCREDIBLE. You did an amazing job. Tears of happiness for you all and continued hope and prayers for Brenna's bright future. XO
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little girl and family! You are an inspiration to all moms....not just those with a baby with extra needs. So special to see how this little girl is bringing the town of Springfield together to support this beautiful family! Lovely words, Courtney....many, many people who don't personally know you know of you and are sending prayers and love your way daily! Hugs to all of you!
ReplyDeleteNicely said and so true!
DeleteAmazing! Brought me to tears! Such a compelling and inspiring story. Brenna is truly a gift from God and couldn't have been born to better parents! Prayers continued! <3 The Murphy's
ReplyDeleteBeautiful baby girl. Beautiful family. Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing. Your story is truely inspiring and I admire your strength. Brenna and your family is in my prayers everyday. Erika Thompson
ReplyDeleteLove the video, the poem, and that Brenna is HOME!
ReplyDeleteContinued prayers for her and your family.
Keep up this site, you do the world and Brenna a great justice, to show us the journey and let us learn and to help.
Beautiful video just like your beautiful little princess!
ReplyDeleteSending you love from Spain
What an inspiring story of faith and trust and love!! My prayers are with Brenna and her family.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful! Thanks for sharing, and so glad Brenna is doing well:)!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful story and what an amazing video! Positive thoughts and prayers continue to be sent your way. Your strength and courage continue to amaze me...Beautiful Brenna is lucky to have such amazing parents! Tears of joy for you and your beautiful family.
ReplyDeleteKristin
Absolutely beautiful. Your families' strength is an inspiration.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful story! God knew what he was doing when he gave such a precious gift to you. Love reading your blog, thoughts and prayers always with you.
ReplyDeleteTara
It's obvious that God sent her to the right family! May you continue to stay strong and hopefully, there will be a cure some day!
ReplyDeleteJust want to tell you.....your family is such a wonderful example of Christs unconditional love! You are inspiring and will touch so many lives with your precious little girl. Debbie K.
ReplyDeletethank you for sharing your beautiful story!!
ReplyDeleteYou and your family are in my prayers....thank you for having the courage to share your families story with all of us.
ReplyDeleteYou are such a strong willed family and your daughter is beautiful! God bless your family. You have been chosen to raise this beautiful child, and we pray for her continuous growth and strength.
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ReplyDeleteWith God all things are possible...God saw your need and knew you were the ones to fill Brenna's.
ReplyDeleteAmazing story... Love the video! Great work!
ReplyDeleteThis is a beautiful video. You guys are a wonderful family.
ReplyDeleteLove it! My family has followed brennas progress and continually prayed for your little angel and family.
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful video! Saying prayers for Brenna and her family.
ReplyDelete"God doesn't give children with disabilities to strong people: He gives them to ordinary, everyday people, then He helps the parents to grow stronger through the journey. Raising a child with special needs doesn't TAKE a special family, it MAKES a special family." ~Author Unknown
ReplyDeletebeautiful video!!!! I am so amazed at your strength! we continue to keep Brenna and all of you in our thoughts and prayers
Beautiful video. Such a moving story. It is so heart warming and humbling to see how much you love, cherish, and are thankful for your little baby girl. Your choice to love her and to help her thrive in this world is a true testimony of God's Love. Bless your daughter, your son, and both of you. Bruce & Julie
ReplyDeleteWe have been following your blog since you've begun posting. We check everyday to see how Brenna and her family are doing. We admire your faith, trust and family courage for precious Brenna. We loved your video and story. Jan & Becky
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful video! So glad Brenna is home and doing well.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely Amazing! Glad she is home, and I totally admire your faith! Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story!
ReplyDeleteKristin
May God continue to bless you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers. Brenna is a beautiful little girl!
ReplyDeleteThat was beautiful. God has truly chosen a special mommy and daddy for Brenna. God bless you all.
ReplyDeleteVicky and Jeff Keever
Your love and strength is so amazing and heartwarming!! I loved the video- it was so well done! I think about your family often and I will keep precious Brenna in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteWe have mutual friends and I have been following the story of your BEAUTIFUL Brenna. Each time I read one of your posts I am awed at your strength of your spirit and the generous way you have shared your darling little girl with strangers far and wide who now feel like friends. God truly blessed your precious Brenna by placing her in your loving arms, and, of course, you are even more blessed to be the family of this beloved child. I have no doubt that Brenna is here to change the world for the better as she journeys her way to a long and lovely life. God bless your family.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful story & a beautiful family. Your video had me in tears of both hurt & joy. I'm so thankful that God has chosen the two of you to be Brenna's parents.
ReplyDeleteOur God is such a good God!....Choosing your family to place Brenna in your hearts, minds, and arms!....A perfect choice!....God Bless you always....XOXOXOXO
ReplyDeleteSally Day
You are wonderful parents! May God continue to bless you and Brenna.
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to let you know I emailed two healthy living bloggers and asked them to share Brenna's story with their readers. They have a massive following and if they do then you will win this contest for sure :)
ReplyDeleteCourtney, your dad always used to say "character is built in the valleys of life", and the longer you live the more true that seems. Your family has been blessed with a beautiful little girl, and with the love and support that is so evident here, I have no doubt she will continue to improve. Julie and I, and the entire family are keeping your family in our prayers! Harvey
ReplyDeleteGod Bless You! Brenna surely is a gift from God. I have been a NICU grandma twice and know how prayer and the holy spirit fill the room with love and warmth. How joyous you must have been when Brenna came home. Prayers for Brenna's continued healing and for God's plan. Blessings, GSue
ReplyDeleteBeautiful writing and video! Hugs! :)
ReplyDeleteGreat story. So glad to see the wonderful progress your baby girl has made since birth. You and your family are truly blessed.
ReplyDeleteWow! What a masterpiece. And I didn't even know this special day on February 29 existed! Thank you so much. I followed all the directions and Brenna got my vote!!! Praying for you all.
ReplyDeleteI heard about your beautiful Brenna from a mutual friend just after she was born. I know those first days were hard, but we prayed hard for Brenna and your family. God answered all those prayers coming your way. Your story is beautiful and I'm sure as Brenna grows she will cherish your words of love and joy! May God continue Bless Brenna and your family!
ReplyDeleteThis is the most beautiful video I have ever seen. Your family is so strong and loving and are truly blessed. What gifts you have to share with your children. Prayers are coming constantly. God bless you all.
ReplyDeleteThis story is truly inspirational. This is a wonderful way to spread knowledge about rare diseases in children and how families cope. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. And "For You, We Pray" daily.
ReplyDeleteLittle Brenna is so very precious. We check your blog daily and really appreciate the frequent updates. Your video and story are priceless. "For You, we Pray" daily.
ReplyDeleteI have been following your family's journey since January after following a link from a friend's Facebook page. I just want to tell you how inspiring your family has been to me. I have a seven month old girl and I pray for little Brenna to thrive and grow. Bless you for being so strong and so brave!
ReplyDeletePrayers for all of you. What an inspiring video and story! Thank you for sharing Brenna with us.
ReplyDeleteOMG!!! Such an awesome video.
ReplyDeleteGod's blessings!
ReplyDeleteThat is a beautiful video and baby girl! She is in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteGod's wonders always continue to amaze me and Brenna is now very much a part of that. My prayers will constantly be with her and her family. Thank you for sharing your special story. I hope to be able to hear of her progress as she grows up.
ReplyDeleteDear precious parents,
ReplyDeleteOf course I support your cause; God DID give you this little girl; I admire the way you prayed for her and how you accept her with all the daily worries which God has entrusted you with. I will be praying for her survival.
Love, 4-H House sister of Rita (Botterbush)
God bless you all. I know your love will carry you through and you will all be blessed. We are praying for you!
ReplyDeleteBaby Brenna is so precious, so very loved. A ray of sunshine surrounds her and extends to far reaches, for she warms every heart who meets her through your generous sharing. Blessings to Brenna and family.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you as parents with the great task ahead of you. He doesn't give us more than we can handle. Baby Brenna is in good hands.
ReplyDeleteI love the verse "For YOU created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise YOU because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; YOUR works are wonderful!" God is the creator of little Brenna and His works are truly a miracle. Blessings to Brenna and her loving family!
ReplyDeleteBrian and Mary Aaon
Thank you for making the video. God bless you all and I'll be praying.
ReplyDeleteBrenna is certainly blessed with amazing parents. Thank you for sharing your story. May God bless you all. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteMerilyn Shepherd
4-H House Class of '75
Wow what a beautiful little poem. Made me cry. I am so happy to see you trust in God. I know when I fell ill it brought me back to Jesus. What a beautiful baby girl.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless
As like many others who have watched this beautiful video of your darling little girl I too am sitting at my desk crying. Tears of happiness for your family and all that you have overcome. I will continue to pray for amazing things for Brenna. Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteCourtney, you are blessed with a beautiful family!
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