The downside to your child being admitted to the hospital on a weekend for an issue that requires the consultation of a variety of specialists is that there are no specialists around to consult.
We literally spent almost two whole days doing absolutely nothing about the problems Brenna has been experiencing - aside from the general monitoring of her vitals - so by last night, I think the hospital staff was well aware that we were expecting some things to start happening first thing today :)
The main issue at hand is that Brenna's eating has been on the decline for the last couple of months, causing a slow weight loss or plateau, with more rapid weight loss in the last week or so. After we placed the feeding tube through her nose on Thursday, she was experiencing constant gagging and vomiting with a lot of mucus.
Finally today, I had had enough of the tube. My general feeling for the last couple of days is that while the tube is giving us access to her stomach, it seemingly is also causing her to throw up. So even though she's not eating enough on her own, she's also not getting enough via the tube because she throws it up. After she had thrown up literally her entire 3-oz. feeding, we kind of just told the staff we were pulling the tube, and that if that didn't alleviate the gagging and vomiting, we could always replace it. And they let us :)
We also are moving ahead with the g-tube, which is going to be done here in town. Even though this procedure will require sutures, the sutures will be down in her other layers of skin, which are functioning properly; it's really only Brenna's epidermis (the top layer) that is affected by her condition.
I understand that the g-tube is important now in order to get her weight back up and increase her nutritional needs, but I don't want to lose sight of the fact that she was eating well, and now she's not, and we really need to figure out why. And I have expressed this concern to most of her docs, so they know where I stand. Something is definitely wrong.
There has been some disagreement between some of her specialists regarding why she's not eating, with her feeding team suggesting that possibly Brenna has developed an intolerance to the formula we use to fortify (Alimentum, which is a very "sensitive" brand). While some of her other docs have their doubts about this, I think with her history of formula intolerance, we should at least entertain the possibility of this.
So we are going to try a trial of Elecare, which is a type that lacks any form of allergens, and if Brenna does well with this, we might just have our answer. If not, then we have at least ruled out that possibility.
I'm just glad we have a plan in place after playing the waiting game for the last two days. Brenna's surgery for the g-tube will be done this week, so I would really appreciate prayers that all goes well. Thank you all for your support while we hopefully overcome yet another hurdle :)
Courtney, I'm glad they have at least started a plan. Good for you, and your husband, for being assertive when you know something has to be done. Many more prayers are being sent your way!
ReplyDeleteYou all continue to be in our prayers. I'm relieved as you are for moving forward with a plan that makes sense. I hope & pray for a quick and positive response in health for Brenna. Prayers for support for all of you.
ReplyDeleteI've been praying for you and your sweet girl and will continue. My baby has an undiagnosed ichthyosis and had terrible eating issues in the NICU so I can understand how frustrating and upsetting it can be. Keep fighting for your girl, she's so blessed to have you as a mommy!
ReplyDeletePrayers for all of you continuing.
ReplyDeleteThinking about you guys this week.
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Praying for your family!
ReplyDeleteSending you all big HUGS! and healing thoughts!
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Has Brenna had a swallow study to make sure she is not aspirating?
ReplyDeleteContinued prayers for baby Brenna. You and Evan are wonderful advocates for her. We will pray that the g-tube helps her gain weight and strength and that her feeding issue will be resolved soon.
ReplyDeleteThoughts and prayers coming your way! I always wonder how Brenna, you, and the rest of the family are doing when I don't see updates :)
ReplyDeleteSo glad to here there is a plan of action!! We hope her feeding issues are resolved asap! Prayers for quick and safe healing in the event of surgery!
ReplyDeleteThoughts and prayers are coming your way!! :)) hope everything goes well!!!
ReplyDeleteFollowing you from Spain for a few months now, and hoping that Brenna's eating issues will be solved asap
ReplyDeleteI don't know how it measures up calorie-wise but we used goat's milk when I stopped bf'ing at 13 mos b/c we quickly discovered that my girl had a cow's milk allergy. My caregiver's partner told me her grandmother had to move back to Italy to feed her uncle goat's milk. He was suffering from failure to thrive and she could not get goat milk locally at the time. (I don't know where they were living.) The uncle thrived on goat milk and even lived to be 92. I switched my girl to goat milk (which I get from a local farmer) and we have had no issues. I've heard (and seen on other boards) that goat milk is much more like human breast milk and doesn't need to be made into a formula. I'm just throwing it out there in case it helps. We're still praying for Brenna in NC.
ReplyDeleteI think you're exactly right to follow your gut that there is something wrong and I hope there is an answer soon. It is so frustrating when we have to figure these things out the hard way.
Praying for all of you as you wait for answers. -jennie
I have been following your blog for awhile, and have been praying for Brenna and your family. I hope everything will be okay for Brenna, and she is home soon. I know as a mom it can be hard to see your child going through hard times and not being able to help them the way you want to. My baby who is 3 months is going through medical issues, and I am very concerned for her. I wish I was able to solve her problems, or take her place, but I can't. I wish people would just get it when I tried talking to them, but they don't. I will be thinking of Brenna and your family.
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